How To Massage The Prostate

For those of you who are working towards the ultimate goal of the prostate orgasm, here’s a great resource on How To Massage The Prostate that is suitable for both beginners and those who have been attempting to achieve this feat, either with fingers or a prostate massage device like the Aneros MGX.

As well as a whole bunch of extras – “Oral Sex Secrets for Orgasms”, “How to Do Dirty Talking” and “Sensational First Time Anal Sex Reports” – the Secrets of Prostate Massage comes with a 60 day money back guarantee so, if you’re not completely happy that you’ve learned something worthwhile, you can get a refund.

However, having read it myself, I’m sure that you will find lots of useful information about how to locate and manipulate the prostate – either solo or with a partner – to get the best results.

There is advice and tips on how to maintain a rock hard erection through a number of orgasms without using chemical drugs and how to prepare, relax and lubricate those anal muscles for worry-free insertion – a concern which is at the forefront of many gentleman’s minds in this scenario. After all, it’s meant to be an exit, not an entrance. I can assure you, from my own personal experience with Ruf, that, to be successful, you do need to be relaxed and comfortable… and lubed up!

There is even a free download to help you to deal with any emotional difficulties regarding insertion, although this should not encourage you to stick ‘just anything’ into that orifice. Stick to your fingers or a specifically-designed, purpose-built device like the Aneros or you might well find yourself in A&E in an embarrassing situation. Unlike the vagina, the anus is not closed at one end. Anything you stick in there must have a fatter base to ensure that it does not get sucked in permanently. Those anal sphincter muscles are incredibly effective.

But it’s also important to be clean and there is a very helpful section on preparation that will help you to change your diet and lifestyle to ensure that you have a healthy colon in the future.

What Ruf and I found most interesting was learning the science behind deeper and more powerful orgasms and, why prostate massage provides a *“Total Protection Package” as a man ages.

For a start, Australian researchers questioned over 2,000 men – some of whom already had prostate cancer, but others who did not – and their data clearly showed that men who ejaculated six or more times per week were 30% less likely to develop prostate cancer in later life.

So, when your guy says it makes him ill if he doesn’t wank or have sex regularly,  he is actually telling the truth.

Through my research for a male health site, there also seems to be evidence that regular prostate massage can help to promote better circulation and prevent some of the enlargement problems that afflict so many men as they reach middle age. If you combine this with a good diet and regular exercise, you will be doing everything possible to protect your prostate. Problems with urination and erectile dysfunction are not inevitable -  if you know how to look after yourself.

However, one word of caution. If you are already suffering such symptoms, you should visit your doctor to rule out prostate disease before you start to experiment with prostate massage as it can exacerbate certain conditions.

If you want to experience better sex and share earth shattering orgasms with or without a partner, this book will show you what you need to know. The sections on massage and how to stop his orgasm contained a large number of very successful techniques which Ruf and I will certainly be utilising as part of our regular lovemaking in the future.

However, it was the chapter on separating orgasm from ejaculation and actually milking the prostate which really make this book a gem. There are a fair few typos but, if you can get past those, the instructions are clear and concise and the author really does seem to know what he’s talking about.

He sets particular emphasis on Kegel exercises – or, more specifically, the male version which he calls the PC (Pubococcygeus) Pump.  Just as  regular Kegel or pelvic floor exercises can promote better and stronger orgasms  for women, so the PC Pump has the same effect for men.

I also enjoyed the paragraphs that focussed on maintaining the connection during the ‘Afterglow’. This is a vastly neglected area of lovemaking, especially for couples who are parents. For so many partnerships, sex is all about satisfying a mutual physical need as quickly as possible and then getting some much-needed sleep. Such an attitude can serve to break a relationship through emphasising the separation of the two entities.

I love lying in Ruf’s arms as we stroke and tickle each other, looking into each others’ eyes and kissing. It’s like a celebration of what we have just achieved. Mutual applause and appreciation. This connection is the basis of tantric sex. It’s what sustains the best and most satisfying sexual performances and refusing to acknowledge it either before, during or after can be catastrophic. However, if you take the time to ‘cool down’ together afterwards, it can carry you through to the next time that you have sexual relations – no matter how far ahead that coupling may be.

The final chapter of the book is a detailed instruction manual on how to massage the prostate with an Aneros. If, like us, you want to achieve the best results with such a device, you should go check out the Secrets of Prostate Massage today.

My review of the Aneros will follow in a few weeks.