Someone asked me recently what toy I would recommend as a first vibrator for someone starting out in masturbation.
I started with an electric toothbrush but I think I can break you in a little more gently than that, now I have several years of experience and a generous toybox under my bed.
I would definitely start with a clit stimulator because it’s less messy and more intuitive. There is a smaller margin for error so you are more likely to hit the right spot, especially if you start with a stimulator that has a larger head. For that reason, I would recommend the Mystic Wand.
It’s about six inches long and has three power speeds/intensities. The flexible head is soft and can generally hit the spot and provide me with a toe-curling climax within a few minutes. I can lie back and feel that orgasm for a good five or six minutes afterwards as the energy courses through my body.
However, whilst it’s not as noisy as some vibrators, its size means that it’s not exactly discreet. For a vibrator that you can take anywhere and which is suitable for any woman, from beginner to serial masturbator, it has to be the new Lelo Mia.
Small, sleek and shiny black. Not much bigger than a lipstick and USB-rechargeable – yup, you can charge it from the USB fitting in your car or on your laptop when travelling – she fits into your handbag and would not cause a moment’s embarrassment at Customs or if you dropped the contents of your bag onto the floor.
The new Lelo Mia has a range of vibrations and pulses with good speeds and intensities and her size means that she can hit that small spot in the clitoral alpha quadrant at one o’clock, which has been producing the most splendid 15 minute orgasms for us recently.
Yup, those are the two I’d be recommending.
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