A Sensual Blog: Having My Cake and Eating It Too

Vaginal Thinning Discomfort

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Wed, 16 May 2012 22:15:32 +0000

So after my post about my problems with Menopause Sex, I suddenly remembered this product that I tested several years ago. It worked fairly well but it was all a bit messy because the upper parts of my vagina do not suffer from problems with lubrication.

I looked into moisturising creams but the main one that [...]

Another Vibrator For Men – Euphoric Vibrating Cock Ring

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Tue, 15 May 2012 00:20:56 +0000

Ruf and I have tried vibrating cock rings in the past - rings of jelly with a bullet attached that slide up the length of the penis to sit in the groin area. Some are tighter and, therefore, less comfortable than others and a few definitely work better when it comes to the power involved in stimulating the penis or the testicles but they only had minimal success when it came to buzzing my button simultaneously. They were fun, but not serious contenders in the vibrator for men department and the problem has always been positioning the bullet in the right place to satisfy both of our anatomical [...]

Who Rules The Roost

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Mon, 14 May 2012 04:17:02 +0000

Following on from my recent post about The United Front, this quiz from iVillage brought back even more memories. But it also raised a number of frustrations by the options available in the answers because it didn’t always allow for having that ‘child in parental clothing’ in the house. The one who would [...]

Tagged – 6 word Memoir

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Sat, 12 May 2012 00:14:33 +0000

I have been tagged by Marianne, who has stolen all my adjectives.

The Rules

1. Write your own six word memoir

2. Post it on your blog and include a visual illustration if you’d like

3. Link to the person that tagged you in your post and to this original post if possible, so we can track it as [...]

And Part of the Answer is Lingerie

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Fri, 11 May 2012 12:44:46 +0000

I had not seen Ruf for a week and the coupling of the previous weekend had left me with the usual feeling of sad discontent at my body’s failure to achieve the heights of old. I wanted to put things right. I wanted to be Joanna Cake again.

So, I got my hair done [...]

On Line Tutor Saves The Day

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Fri, 11 May 2012 11:32:33 +0000

If you’re a parent, I suspect that you will have experienced that sinking feeling when one of your kids springs their latest homework assignment on you – and you don’t have a clue how to help. I bet even Albert Einstein would have struggled with some of the essays that need to be written [...]

The United Front

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Thu, 10 May 2012 09:53:00 +0000

I found this, written nearly three years ago

Before we got married and so long before we had children of our own, my Husband and I would discuss our feelings about their upbringing. I thought we had agreed on a strategy. I was very wrong.

Whenever I hear people say ‘We’re going through a bit of [...]

Sugasm #102

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Wed, 09 May 2012 00:07:55 +0000

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #103? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s PicksShe Told Me“She [...]

Pleasurists #174

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Tue, 08 May 2012 13:38:40 +0000

Image courtesy of Midnight Boudoir*

Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it be sure to follow the RSS Feed and Twitter for updates.

Did you miss Pleasurists 173? Read it all here. [...]

e[lust] #35

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Mon, 07 May 2012 10:54:53 +0000

Photo Courtesy of Vincent and Mia

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #36? Start [...]