Having My Cake and Eating It Too is a sensual blog covering one woman’s steep learning curve as, recovering from anorexia, she learns to glory in the perfection of her body by seeing it through the eyes of the man who loves her.
The journey takes us through all the elements of a being a woman – Menstruation, Marriage, Motherhood, Masturbation, Misbehaviour, Menopause, Medication and Other Mayhem.
Joanna Cake documents and discusses everything that life can throw at her in the hope of helping other self-harmers to come out the other side.
There is life after compulsive addiction…
… even if Menopause does try to prevent the possibility of continuing the fulfilling sex life that recovery seemed to offer oh so briefly…























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